Sounds to me like you are trying to patent a concept. Concepts are not patentable, only "inventions" are patentable. An invention has definition and boundaries. In your wheel example, you have to define the shape and structure of the wheel. I would argue the round shape is needed (in practice nobody wants to use a square wheel) so I would start there. Then think of the other areas that are essential for the wheel like a centrally located connection point.
Claim drafting is not easy. There is a reason why patent attorneys can charge $500+ per hour to think through these things carefully. Once you have your claims properly drafted, you can use those as your framework to write out the entire application and describe each of your claim terms.